How 2 Love…

Societal beliefs about love

Transcript Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life. What about societal beliefs regarding love? is any one of these the one thing that is blocking you, that someone must be of a certain age, that you cannot have children, if I can not have a child I am not going to love anybody with one. Could that be your block keeping you from an incredible love relationship, then we go down the list, religion, nationality, ethnicity, money, we need to find the one thing. (there is nothing wrong about being specific, when we write out lists for our perfect partner but cut out to the need be a certain height, weight, income, pay no attention to the physical appearance, put more into the character to more humorous, kind, honest, this is where the focus is to come) Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients. Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do….. Step 1 – write down this question think about it what are my societal beliefs about love, now these are huge, do you have a belief that you can only date someone within a certain age? This could be a huge block to love, if you believe someone is 5, 10, 20 years older that it could never work. That could be your one thing to let go of, if heterosexual, gay, lesbian and your belief is that you are so filled with shame and guilt because society says that especially many religions state that the only way love relationships should be is between a man and a women then it could that social belief that is keeping you from a great love relationship. Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future what do you see, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down. Is it the societal belief about children holding you back, you do not have children and you are 40, 45 yrs .65 old and you have the belief to be in love it’s about family and since you cannot have children, or never had children you will not be able to experience that family bond. What about the belief that you cannot physically have children so you feel a failure because you cannot have children because of an hormonal problem or there is something physically wrong, that could be your one thing to let go of, in order to attract a deep and meaningful love relationship. Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week, what does this statement mean to you, let’s get clear here, what is its meaning in your life. Is it about religion, if you have grown up in a family that says if you marry outside our religion then it’s a fate worse than death. Could that be something that is holding you back and sabotaging you from experiencing deep love? Take your time; do not rush this we want to find the one thing that you believe is blocking you. Nationality, ethnicity these two things go hand in hand of I can only date of my own race, could your partner be of another ethnicity or nationality could it be these that are holding you back from experiencing deep incredible love. Next is money, I am only going to date someone who makes X amount of money, this could be what is blocking you from finding that deep relationship, your one thing. You might be able to find people from all other income ranges that would be incredibly deep loving, honest, monogamous partner for you, but if you have a block and that thing is money and it’s not worked for you in the past. I want you to consider that this could be your one thing you have denied, delayed and procrastinated in letting go of. Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website www.selinastone.com Until next week, Be Lucky! Selina Stone