How 2 Love…
What could your One Thing be in regards to love, that you have denied, delayed, and procrastinated dealing with?
Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life.
Last week we introduced the David Essels one thing theory to you, this week we want to find out what your one thing in regards to love could be. Somebody’s one thing could be alcohol, remove the alcohol, the co-dependency and open your heart up to love. If you find the one thing that is blocking you, do the work here and by the end of the course you will finally be available for love, it’s that simple.
Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.
Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..
Step 1 – write down this question think about it. What could your one thing be to do with love that you have denied, delayed, and procrastinated in dealing with? If we do not deal with it, it will continue to repeat the same patterns over and over again. Could your one thing be about a belief of yourself that you are not worthy of love, that you have some sort of emotional, physical scar, that there is something not worthy about you. Could this be your one thing you have denied, delayed, procrastinated about? For many of us this is it. This is a huge unworthiness and we sabotage potentially good relationships, because we do not feel worthy of someone’s attention in love.
Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future what do you see, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down.
What could be your one thing in love that you have denied, delayed, procrastinated about dealing with. What did you find out, what was it for you? Was it beliefs about men, negative, limiting beliefs that were blocking you from love? Were there negative limiting beliefs about women blocking you? Was it holding onto the fantasy about love the illusions of soul mates, twin flame was that getting in your way, because you was looking for the perfect partner, the partner you will never argue with, have disagreements with. All that is fantasy and if you do not believe that to be true just look around you.
Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life
So what is the one thing you have denied, delayed procrastinated about? We have to remove the resentments the fears the insecurities around love, the beliefs systems that are not serving you, the belief systems to clean this crap up or keep repeating the same mistake. I am not saying miracles cannot happen where 1 in a billion have a truly outrageous connection, maybe they were gifted, born with that gift. But for most of us, we have not been.
Once we find the one thing we are going to set up an action plan on how to remove it. If we do not take care of the blocks that are sabotaging deep love with the current relationship we are in or if single we will continue to attract the same type of people as in the past and if in a relationship to have less than an average relationship, if single you will continue to attract unavailable people and you will never reach the premise of this course to find, nurture and deepen a phenomenal love relationship. Do not repeat the past; we want fresh, new, exciting, divine union.
Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website www.selinastone.com Until next week,