How 2 Love…
Beliefs about men & women
Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life.
Are there beliefs about the role of men & women in our life that we have to get rid of to open our hearts to love, men have to do this and this and that some of the beliefs regards to money that men have to be the bread winners, or could it be that the women brings home the money and the man has to let go of his belief that women should not be the ones bringing home the money, this could be the one thing to let go of and then a relationship could blossom. Release the role of the women, women are suppose to raise kids, hold a job and totally take care of the home, while the man just sits there waiting for things to be done. That belief system could be blocking you from having that great relationship even possibly the one you have right now from blossoming.
Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.
Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..
Step 1 – write down this question think about it. What are your beliefs about men about women?
Do you have beliefs about men that are unhealthy? Please, write them all down, all of these unhealthy beliefs, all of these potential “one things” that have caused the most havoc in your life it’s the same for women. What we are trying to do is get to the chore and look for the one thing that is getting in the way of a phenomenal love relationship, once we find it we need to remove it, once we remove it, we are then ready for love, it’s almost that simple,
Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future what do you see, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down.
Because denial is so powerful & rationalization, more often than not it takes quite a bit of work to find our one thing. If it was that simple you could find it right now, grab it and get a rid of it and be done, but for most of us we still have not found it, it hides, it tricky. You may think men are great but underneath that there could be a belief that is the opposite. Use this visualization technique to see.
Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life
To find out the one thing; if you date men or women, ask friends, family or even ex partners ask them if they think you have any beliefs about men or women that are limiting. You may know of some, but you have to take a risk here, as you may go into denial and believe that you are ok and there could be a belief about your partners sex that is holding you back. You have to take a risk here and ask them. What are your unhealthy beliefs about men, about women? I want you to write down as many unhealthy beliefs as you can.
Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website www.selinastone.com
Until next week,