6# How 2 Love…
What are the characteristics, the type of person that you attracted in the past that did not work for you.
Hello and welcome to this new web series how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be clean and clear and happy in love.
Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.
This week’s assignment we are looking at what are the characteristics, the type of person that you attracted in the past that did not work for you.
Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..
Step 1 – write down this question think about it- what are the characteristics the type of person that you attracted in the past that did not work, was it people that consistently wanted to be taken care of, were they needy, were they highly judgmental, were they too religious or spiritual or not religious or spiritual enough, were they just non committed in life, it could be one was a control freak, an alcoholic, or somebody incredibly insecure and jealous, or someone who had to be right all the time, maybe there was someone who smoked and you are not a smoker and you attracted them into your life anyway, some might say, I keep on attracting women that have no relationship with their father, they were abandon by their father, or he was not their emotionally or vice versa with their mother, the list goes on and on
Step 2 – visualize – write scenario the feelings it brings to mind, describe the pictures you are seeing, So you want to look at these characteristics and get very clear about what is not working, i want you to remember all of those triggers that set you off in the past, again, This is called pattern writing, take your time, i want you to go deep and become clear about who it is you are looking to attract and we do this by process of elimination only then will we be willing & ready to let those partners go that do not match what you desire, weather you are in a relationship or not the same rules apply.
Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life , I think this is starting to make sense to you right now, all of this pre work, all of this work before we even get into the whole concept of releasing these things is that we have got to see in writing what the patterns are in the past , we have to remove these patterns before we have a shot in the dark at all about manifesting deep and meaningful love, until we do this work, there is no way we are going to create anything different than we have created in the past. The repetition of the pattern will continue onwards until we do this
This is huge, again, this is an example of pattern writing, I want you to List the people that you dated and then next to them list the characteristics that were not a good match for you if you get stuck with this, then call a friend ask them for their opinion, even better than that take the question and put in an email & ask them to answer in an email, now it’s in the physical world, now you can see what these blocks are that we need to address to get rid of
Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason why I am here for you. Until next week,