4# How 2 love…

What was your role in past love relationships that created chaos & drama or the reason these ended?


Hello and welcome to this new web series how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be clean and clear and happy in love.

Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.

For this week’s question, you gotta get humble, you gotta get real, you gotta get honest, and you would not be watching if you were not ready to do this. Now we want to know what was your role or roles in past love relationships that created chaos, drama or the reason these ended.

Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..

Step 1 – write down this question think about it, what was your role in past love relationships that created chaos drama or the reason these ended?

What was your role, or roles? Get real, get honest, some of them could be insecurity, maybe you were a very insecure person, maybe you were a control freak, very needy and that’s what caused the chaos and drama, you see where I am going? Maybe you do not feel worthy of love, maybe you do not trust men, trust women; maybe you do not belief in love. Write down what are all the reasons

Step 2 – visualize – write the scenarios, the feelings it brings to mind, describe the pictures you are seeing  Write out names of various people you have dated over the years, and then write out your role and how you created chaos and drama. This is called pattern writing. Write out all the names and then next to them write out just your role and how you created chaos and drama or the reasons these ended

Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week, what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life., what are all the reasons that created just from your side, from your perspective, just your role that created chaos and drama, or the reason these ended. This is a really big question & it’s a crucial question, By writing these down we will be able to see a pattern, to see the things that got in the way of you having what you desired in life.

It has been said that The only constant in all dysfunctual relationships is you, and it’s so true, places change, names change, bodies change of who we have dated, but the constant in all of our dysfunctual relationships that did not work out is us, and i am not saying it’s bad that they did not work, there are no judgement but we have to get to the point of saying this was my role, these are my roles that created drama, and chaos

Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason why I am here for you. Until next week,

Be Lucky!

Selina Stone


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