How 2 Love…
Define a deep & meaningful love
Hello and welcome to this new web series how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be clean and clear and happy in love.
Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.
In our society today there are very few people in a meaningful love relationship. The divorce rate is still 50% of first time marriages, the second time marriages is at around 80% divorce rates, it’s unbelievable those statistics are so far from creating a deep love relationship.
Last week we had you write down what a love relationship means to you, this week your assignment is to write down what a deep and meaningful love relationship looks like to you
Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..
Step 1 – write down this question think about it – define a deep & meaningful love relationship, now we want to know, just to you personally, what are the characteristics of a meaningful love relationship – this is so crucial, this is why you are here, because we want to develop, deepen and create a meaningful love relationship, enough of the of the average..
Step 2 – visualize – write scenario the feelings it brings to mind, describe the pictures you are seeing, We are looking for deep love, we are not looking for average love, we are not looking for fairytale love, we are not looking for the illusion of love, we are looking for meaningful love and during this series we are going to find out just what that means, to bring this into your life, into your reality. What is an example a scenario played out of deep & meaningful love, what that picture look like to you
Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life. Through the repetition of answering these questions that we get clear. it’s through the repetition & writing the answers to these questions we get more real, we break out of any denial you might have in regarding your role in the past, in the present, or your expectations for love in the future, you will break out of blocks, you will break out of beliefs that are not serving you and you will create a definition of meaningful love. Repetition is the key to success! if you work on this question, over and over again, it will become more clear to you.
Remember if we do not have a goal like defining what a deep meaningful love relationship is, then at the end how are we going to know if it works? We are not. Specifics are crucial in accomplishing your goal. Practice makes perfect, you do not become better at golf or tennis at basket ball you do not improve your body without repetition on a daily basis. It’s the same thing with love, you are not gonna get more clear, you’re not going to get better at your expectations until we can identify what we are after.
Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason why I am here for you. Until next week,