How 2 Love…

How many of these characteristics that you desire in a partner do you currently have?


Hello and welcome to this new web series how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be clean and clear and happy in love.

Hi. I am Selina Stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.

Last week we got you to write down the characteristics that you would be a good match for you, now this weeks assignment is  How many of these characteristics do you currently have that you are looking for in someone else, like we want to do a self judgment, like wow, we want perfection right? I want all these things in someone else, but what do i have of all those things?


Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..

Step 1 – write down this question think about how many of these characteristics that you desire in a partner do you currently have? write it down all of the characteristics that you are currently looking for that you have, be honest here, if you say you are looking for someone with Integrity, who calls when they are going to call, who shows up when say they will, one of the keys for you is integrity and that your partner is to do as they say they will, that they will be there when they say they will, they call when they are going to, then write down you do.

Step 2 – visualize – write scenario the feelings it brings to mind, describe the pictures you are seeing- Like attracts like, that’s not to say opposites do not attract we will get into that later, but  you must be willing to do the same for someone else that you expect of them, you cannot just say i want someone to do what they say they are going to do and then you just do whatever you want . Be honest! Nobody is 100% perfect. The Purpose of this course is to get you started, go the depth that will take you through and help you create the love that you are looking for

Step 3 – repetition  – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life

Your clarity, success, will come from going back over these questions over the next 7 days, writing them again, looking deeper uncovering where we had a little bit of a fiasco on and getting real and honest it’s the only way to do it, and this is going to happen in-between today and next week, remember 90% of your growth will come from writing exercises done in-between our next session.

By  looking at the characteristics we desire in someone else, and asking do I even have these characteristics myself, we activate the law of attraction We want to become who it is we want to attract,  if we cannot do that we are never going to attract deep loving relationship, we are not going to learn how to manifest it, we are not going to  learn how to deepen it, i want you to be so certain and clear, about the blocks the beliefs, the resistance that  you need to remove first from your life to attract deep love

Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason why I am here for you. Until next week,

Be Lucky!

Selina Stone

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