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Introducing the law of attraction

Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life. Learn how to attract the love we desire and deserve with these 3-4 minute blogs each week.

So far during these sessions we have been dealing with the blocks the excuses, the resentments and releasing them through the art of forgiveness. Today we want to see where we are, what work is still to be done and we do this by looking into the mirror and when I say that I mean I what you to see what is being reflected back to you from the outside world. The law of attraction states it will bring into our lives the people that are resonating at the same level that we are, the same energy that we are, and the same desires that we have and that’s the law of attraction.

Law of attraction, if we are attracting unavailable men or women, we have to look at fact that we are unavailable too, and we have to do some exercises to figure that out through the pattern writing

Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.

I first learnt about the Law of Attraction when I started out as casting director, my job back then was to find people of a certain look, certain characteristics and I always found them to be hanging out in specific areas, like after all does attract like, take a look around you do you like what you see or do you feel you are meant to be elsewhere? For those of you that poo poo the law of attraction, it’s a myth and outdated publicity stunt well that’s because you do not fully understand the concept at the deep level it is meant, for it does not mean by simply thinking something it will come to fruition no it means taking action and for you to be more of the very thing that you are willing to come into your life. You are the creator and you can create any circumstance you want for your growth.

Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..

Step 1 – write down this question think about it – What am I attracting into my life right now?

Here´s an example of the law of attraction in action, the reflection staring right at us in the face, let’s say we are attracting so called unavailable men or women into our lives, what does that say about us? The truth is here that we are unavailable and at some level, there is a difference between attracting unavailable people and dating them
You see, when we become clean and clear and release the blocks through the exercises I have asked for you to do you will start to attract clean, clearer and healthier people but do not get me confused, for you may still attract the bad boys once again or the women that comes into your life that wants to be financially dependent on you, but this time you can just say. OK, that does not resonate for me anymore, I do not want to go there with you and that’s because you have done this release work, you will now be able to say, they are just not for me and you will let them go. Only then does the universe go OMG! They are really serious and that will start to open up the doorway for you to attract someone who is available and more like you into your life.

Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future and see you living in bliss of how you would like things to be, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down. What is being reflected back to you that you need to do? It could be by being celibate for 1 year while you are working yourself clear, that the special person to be, the love of your life to come is doing the very same thing, they could be working on an alcohol problem or drugs, but when they meet you they too are clean and clear now you are both on the same path, at the same time and this meeting comes out of no-where. And guess what? Their mind is clear, they have done their work and you have done your work to be clear of any resentment that may have been hidden and now we have 2 clean, clear, healthy people available ready to date and the spark´s to fly. That’s what we want that’s why we are here getting to the chore of our issue, taking the necessary action to be ready for the magic when it happens.

Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life
We may have had 10, 15, 20, 30 years of bad relationships, but simply by doing this work alone does not mean we won’t still be attracted to the same type of unavailable people as we did in the past, the difference is we are cleared up & the relationship with someone unavailable will be a day long, a week long, a month long at most!

You see, when someone is really healthy in love, you will end the relationship quickly, whereas in the past when you saw the red flags you would have made excuses for them as to why you are going to keep them with you, maybe you can help them to change and all that kind of stuff. This time you will say no more and end it, you stay friends but you do not go into these 3/6 months, 1 year, and 20 years relationships with them as you are too clear, too available.

When we are clear of the past, clear of shame and guilt surrounding relationships, free of resentments and the excuses surrounding relationships, when we are totally clear, we are then available. That is as simple as it gets. We have to get really clear on the characteristics the chore characteristics that we want to attract into our life so that they become a guide for the things we are looking for, the things that we to want to become of.

Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website until next week,
Be Lucky!
Selina Stone

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