How 2 Love…

 Your action steps.

Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life. Learn how to attract the love we desire and deserve with these 3-4 minute blogs each week.

This week we are to become more in sync and on the same level of the person that we are trying to attract into our life and to do this we have to take the steps required  to be more of the characteristic´s that we currently do not have, that we would like our partner to have.

Like attracts like and when we write out what we need to do to acquire those characteristics then and only then can we get ready for the law of attraction to kick into action.

Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.

Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..

Step 1 – write down this question think about it -what are my action steps going to be for me to become more like the partner I would like to attract.  I want you to do whatever it is you do not have, just choose one of the characteristics on your list that we prepared in our last session – let’s say its patience; then you need to create a step by step process in writing to become more patient because that’s the trait you are looking for in someone else, then that’s what you want for yourself.

 Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future and see your ideal solutions, you living in bliss, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down.

We want to be able to create specifics on how you are going to become more like the person you are looking to attract otherwise It’s not just going to happen, trust me.if we just keep it  in our heads, yes I am going to be more patient and be more fit, more spiritual but we do not have an action plan to make it happen, its not going to happen, eventually we are going to go back to what is comfortable.

 Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week, what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life, then write down the step by step process that comes through to you, see yourself doing it, then plan it, schedule it into your calendar, the day and time and just do it! Examples; If its spirituality you could schedule to read a spiritual book for 20 mins per day. You might say if its fitness; I am going to go to the gym 5 times per week, or walk in my neighborhood from 6-7am in the morning 5 days per week.

If we do not write down our steps and make a commitment to see them through and do, instead of getting up at 6am and going for a walk we are going to sleep in till 7am. Comfortable means that instead of getting up at 7am to read a spiritual book for 20 mins before work, we are going to sleep in. Comfortable means instead of pushing ourselves in traffic to be more patient, because we want to attract a patient person, we will go back to having road rage.

We know Positive thinking does not work, waking up and saying i am going to be more spiritual today then the minute you walk out of the door and something stressful happens, that concept of being more spiritual goes out of the window.

However, if you have a step by step process that says, I am going to be more spiritual on a daily basis means this and this is how I am going to achieve that, then we will be more successful in achieving and sticking to our goal.

Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website

Until next week,

Be Lucky!

Selina Stone

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