How 2 love…
Beliefs about the roles of men, women in love relationships
Hello and welcome to how 2 love, follow these weekly instructions and you will soon be on your way to manifesting deep and meaningful love into your life.
What are your beliefs about the roles of men, women in love relationships? Do you have fantasies about love that you have to let go of? Is that your one thing that you have denied delayed procrastinated about in dealing with? If in a relationship you could be holding onto beliefs about men/women that are not serving you or your partner, you could be sabotaging the depths that the relationships could go to.
Hi. I am Selina stone a master life coach and I will be presenting you each week with a new key that opens the door to love! These wisdoms and teachings that I am sharing with you were passed onto by my mentor and teacher David Essel who has over 30 yrs experience and a high success rate amongst his clients.
Between now and our next session I want you to go deep and really at look at this question and everyday for the next 7 days following these 3 steps this is what I want you to do…..
Step 1 – write down this question think about it What are your beliefs about the roles of men, women in love relationships?
What are the fantasy stories you have about soul mates, stories of love that you have held onto, the erotic stories you have read, the romance novels etc that are full of illusion, you may have fantasies about love from childhood, or by looking at a couple thinking they have a perfect relationship because they show that to the outside world. & you say, If only I could find someone like so and so
Step 2 – visualization – write the scenario the feelings it brings to mind, the triggers, the memories of the past, then fast forward and jump into the future what do you see, describe the pictures you are seeing, just write them all down. Beliefs about the role of men in love, do you have some illusions about how a guy is suppose to be in love, that you have stereo typical responses that every man if he can’t fix it a toilet, broken door then you do not want him in your life, do you believe that all men should be able to fix X? Do you have beliefs about the role of women in love? that are holding you back, women are all suppose to be X, women should put on makeup as soon as they wake up to look at her best at breakfast, make dinner every night as well as clean the house and work full time as well as raise 2,3,4,5 kids!
Step 3 – repetition – write and re write your answers, look at this question everyday over the next week , what does this statement mean to you, what is its meaning in your life
Let’s find out what they are, let’s see if there is anything we need to let go of that could be holding us back, from creating that relationship, Men should provide me with the money to live comfortably. Is this the belief that is shooting you in the foot and defeating your chances of creating deep love, is this your one thing you have denied, delayed and procrastinated about letting go of in order to find love? We are looking at all of these beliefs that could be sabotaging us, our belief or experience
Well that’s all we have time for today, I look forward to you all tuning in again next week. In the meantime please subscribe to my YouTube channel and you will be notified when the next session is aired. Together we can stay on track to creating a deep meaningful love into your life and that’s the reason I am here. And if you feel you would like me to personally coach you, inspire and motivate then please feel free to contact me via my website www.selinastone.com
Until next week,